Thursday, February 20, 2025

Bar Experience - Part 3


I'm a big boy now. I went to the infamous Emeri's restaurant in the heart of New Orleans and sat the bar. A gentleman ended up sitting next to me.... and we both had our time to ease in... order food, play with our phones. Then I started with the same opening line the older gentleman said to me the other night, "You from outta town?" And we hit it off from there.... had a wonderful evening of sharing, eating, breaking bread... literally. I gave him a piece of my Fried Oyster Bao Bun!! Heh... bar hopping, eh??


Gumbo at Emeri's - 3 star - maybe?? 


Shrimp and Lobster dumpling with Chili Oil


Fried Oyster Bao Bun

A "Walk Home Drink" for me to sober up

Wednesday, February 19, 2025

Bar Experience - Part 2

 Went to eat at the bar again at another local cafe.  This time... no one spoke to me.  The guy to my left was rude and loud to the bartender/waitress.  The guy to my right ordered a plate of shrimp and bowl of gumbo and tended to himself.  I actually felt kinda sad.


Phil's Marina Cafe - Crab Cake




Softshell Crab and Gouda Grits

Tuesday, February 18, 2025

Bar Experience

When I'm traveling for work... I often eat at the bar.  I'll get a menu, maybe order a drink, watch some TV if there's a game on.  Get in.  Get out.

Tonight... down in NOLA... I went into a little local cafe I guess.  I've been here before so I wasn't completely a stranger.  Like last time, I was on the only Asian and at the bar, strangely enough... were all old men well into retirement age.  Did I just walk into some sorta "special" bar I wasn't aware of? Were they having a monthly gathering or meeting of the local chapter?

I was famished and just wanted to eat.  But amazingly... one of the older gentleman started striking up a conversation and he was just the friendliest guy you can encounter.  He was obviously a local... flirting with the bartender... making wise cracks with his buds.  Then another guy comes in... and he introduces me to his friend. 

It felt uncomfortable... but after awhile... I started to like it.  They weren't too intruding... giving me time to eat.  And before you knew it... he paid and left.  

A fun bar experience.  Is that what going to a bar is suppose to be like?


Fried Seafood Platter (oyster, shrimp, fish)


loaded potatoes


Chicken and sausage gumbo - 5 Star quality




Monday, February 17, 2025

When reality becomes a dream

夢境成真 is a coming term we throw around all the time.  But last night... it was the opposite.

In my dream... SW's bed was emitting a clicking sound.  So Joyce and I spent a lot of time investigating under and around his bed but couldn't find it.  Then I woke up... and realized the bathroom exhaust fan has been clicking the entire night.  That same clicking sound.  

Saturday, February 15, 2025

Quick trip to Zona

NN's team has a tournament in Arizona... our first out of state tournament.  It's not like we needed to travel... it's expensive... it's a hassel... we could've done what we did locally.  And it was a shortened trip because unlike most schools, we don't have a ski week to land on.  So the kids had to hurry there and hurry back. 

Best part of the trip... other than an afternoon in Mesa with some nice local food was SW getting to visit his childhood best friend.  They first met each other in kindergarten... SW not knowing any English whatsoever.  He was the biggest kid in class... SW was the smallest.  And like Simon and Garfunkel... Pinky and the Brain.  But someway... somehow... they managed to stay close.

When COVID and they were stranded... the two of the discovered a whole new way of bonding through devices and minecraft.  Sadly.. this family had to move away after 4th grade which was a bummer.  And yet... they somehow managed to stay close.  Closer than any friend he has locally.  And from the sounds of things... his buddy never found another friend like SW.

Whenever they come out... which isn't often... the mom would make sure to give us a heads up to hang out.  And this time... when we told them we'll be in town... they changed their long weekend itinerary to accommodate our schedule.

Cheers to friendship!!!