Friday, October 14, 2022

Our Town

There's a very thin line between good theater and bad theater. Throw in singing and dancing and it can go very right... or very wrong!! Make a "junior" version of something, it takes away from the soul of the very being that once brought that script to life. Speaking of life... Emily said, “Do human beings ever realize life while they live it ?-every, every minute?”

Quoting Emily Webb from Our Town, by Thorton Wilder.

First came across Grover's Corner in 7th grade.  As a kid... I loved reading plays. In class, we would take turns reading the lines. It was much more engaging than reading a novel.  But this wasn't your typical play... with character development, challenge, overcome, and climax.  If anything... it forced us to grow up before most of us were ready for it.  All those words to say... did not like it.

Then some where / some time in the 90's... there was an episode of Growing Pains where perennial goofball and troublemaker Mike Seaver (played by Kirk Cameron) was in a high school play.  He struggled with the play and was in it to get close to the female lead.  But when it came time to deliver his line... to have his moment... he nails it. 

George: "Emily... would you be...? Uhm... could you be...."  
Emily: "I am now!  I always have been...."

From that moment on... no one can deliver that line any better.  




In high school... we had a chance to re-read it.  And I still wasn't old enough to fully appreciate the passage of life.  Haven't experienced love, marriage, death... the lowlight of that experience was Stewart butchering George's line.  In the most mono-tone mutter - we completely lost the essence. 

A few years ago, Wonder - the movie starting Julia Roberts and Owen Wilson.. tried to capture the moment through the life of their daughter Via.  Originally the understudy, she was launched to leading lady on opening night... and like Kirk Cameron, she cemented how Emily should deliver the closing lines of Act 3. And all-hail her for her excellence... Julia Roberts with her teary eyes and massive grin puts her stamp of approval. 




TKA High School Visual Performing Arts took on the challenge of Our Town.  A bunch of teenagers.. awkwardly scrambling through three Acts of Life, Love, Death.  Unlike Jr. High... who butchers the script but making them a junior version... the full on script stands on its own.  Without being too critical of the acting and performance... Thorton Wilder is a legend in his own right and transcends time for reasons that appeal by the flow of diction, magnification of the little things, stopping to smell the grass by the flowers, the tugging of the heartstrings. 

Looking past the overacting... the mis-cues... the soft attempts to be "adults"... they actors stood their grounds and owned their roles.  Stage Manager... smoking a pipe and bringing the audience through this time machine.  Mrs. Gibbs and Mrs. Webb.... cooking 3 meals a day for 20+ years... never taking a break. George and Emily... from childhood friends, to high school flirts, to the marriage.


Why have I never noticed the future son-in-law and future father-in-law scene? Why don't I remember George freaking out and.... and his mom of all people... slapping some sense into him? (I swear Elisa would've teared up) Why can't I recall Mr. Webb having a similar conversation with Emily? Or the long soliloquy about "marriage" being a destiny? 

I guess... from an English class... we focus mainly on Act 3.   "You must live life to have life.  And you must have life to live life." or "I can't look at everything, hard enough." A melancholic ending... but a wake up call to a dozing audience. As such.. I ask myself...  Do I ever realize life while I live it ?-every, every minute?”

And with every TKA performance... I especially get choked up during ovations when they point to the audience... point to the tech crew... and then point to the heavens.  All glory to Jesus. 
 

Thursday, October 13, 2022

成了…?

After 6 months of back and forth... filling out forms... filling out more forms... getting proof, money orders, notary stamps... we did it.  Unit 408.

The final interview to get past the finish line took over 2 hours.  I'm soooo hangry.  And it ain't over yet.  Gotta get her set up for internet, PG&E, phone, laundry.... OMG.... how do non-English people do this without help?!?!?



Monday, October 10, 2022

Talk about timing

 As SH is finishing up her application process... we get this email.  Talk about timing... heh.



Sunday, October 09, 2022

Mia Naomi

At approximately 7:40AM... I shot MC a text, "早晨", not knowing what she was up to.  Was she in labor? Was she pushing? Was she recovering? Surprisingly... she texted back and said, "Here la." Hahahahahhaa.... she just gave birth during the middle of the night and here she is texting?!?!? Must've been a smooth delivery.  

Oh.... I soooooo wanna go visit.  So wanna hold baby Mia.  But alas.... COVID is still very active.  As is the cold and flu.  I can't wait to spoil this princess.  Not my own... but I will make her my own. Muahahahahhaha..... 

Friday, October 07, 2022

M.I.P.

At the end of season team celebration... Coach Noah started handing out awards.  "The Most Improved Player award for The King's Academy Jr. High Flag Football goes to... Joshua!!"  With both arms raised in triumph and pride... SW aptly accepts the M.I.P. award.  

Keep pushing, son.  This world is not always on our side.  We need to earn every bit of it... with every last ounce of strength and grit.  So proud of you. 


Thursday, October 06, 2022

Tainted

Upon launching Uber on company phone... I noticed I only had 4.5 stars out of 5.  Who docked me?!?!  I always tip well.  I'm never late. I'm courteous. I tried to go back in my records to see which trip it was... but d'oh.... it's anonymous.  Why's this stressing me out so much... heh


Wednesday, October 05, 2022

Legacy

At the Leadership Offsite this week....

  • A newer leader whom I've never met in person comes up to me and says, "I just wanted to say... I so appreciate your humor.  You are so funny."
  • During a discussion on "Speak Up Culture", I encouraged all leaders to not hesitate to ask the dumb question.  You may know the answer... but someone else might not.  Another newer leader whom I've never met commented, "I've seen you do that.  And it helps.  Thanks."
  • While sharing some person struggles to change, a leader was pouring his heart out on the uncertainty when coming to his new job.  I shared the same thing.. but I found a confidant to confide with.  He quipped... "You're always so uppidty-up. I would've never thought you were having problems."  And one of my direct report says, "Hank has a lot of energy."
All that being said...  I am who I am, not cuz what I want to create a persona. But people are watching and observing.  That's my the legacy or better yet... it's my Hank-gacy. 



Saturday, October 01, 2022

Malservice Industry

Pet-peeve #9 - 

Went to Top's Cafe today during lunch rush... and their waitress gave away our baked porkchop rice/spaghetti.  I watched with wide-eyed despair. What are the chances...another table ordered the exact same thing as us, where they wouldn't say, "We didn't order this." 

I got so pissed...  for a $43 check... I held back and only gave a $4 tip.  Shouldn't have given anything.  Ugh.... 

Friday, September 30, 2022

Pinnacles

PAL is on sabbatical and he asked me to translate for our Mission Conference speaker. What an honor and privilege.  We are C&MA... missions is in our name, our DNA.  Mission Conference is the pinnacle and highlight of the year.  8 years after I first started translating... I've done funerals.  Now I've done Mission Conference.  The next two on the list is Deeper Life and a wedding.  And I'll have my grand slam.  Heh... 

Thursday, September 29, 2022

Graduation? Congratulations!

Did that just happen? Did I graduate and become a full-fledge social worker?  



Wednesday, September 28, 2022

To Kill a Mockingbird

An American classic that probably read by 90% of junior high students. I was part of that 10%.  Heard a lot about it.  It wasn't till the early 2000's...when I got laid off... that I plowed through a hefty amount of these classics, including "To Kill a Mockingbird" by Harper Lee.  (Bucket list - checked!)

20 years later... NN's 8th grade class is taking on this book coinciding with the play coming to Best of Broadway in San Francisco.  I was soooo looking forward to chaperoning - but alas, I have my first biz trip in 3 years.  

On my weekly tour of the San Jose Public Library... I came across the graphic novel.  The inertia was huge... it took me weeks to get on board... and even then the bookmark never budged. Then last night.. NN had to stay up late to do homework and I wanted to sit next to her (as much father/daughter time I can get). Was done reading my phone... so I dusted off this overdue library book and it became a page turner.  Even after having read it before... I was left tense and sweating.  

What a book.  What a topic. What an approach. Harper Lee.  What a legend.