Today was Helena's Memorial Service. I was honored to be asked to read from Scriptures, translate the sermon and translate the Eulogy.
I met Helena in 2016... when she came to our church. Her son flew down from Canada to accompany her mom as she went through surgery and subsequently cancer treatment. I was able to befriend Whitman... and came to know Helena. I never got to know her well. But she was always the mother of my friend... which made her so much closer. Over the years... I saw her grow in Christ. Her faith. Her love. Her servant heart. I was delighted to see her volunteer for the ESL ministry. And I was blessed to have taught the Beginner's Sunday School class.
Late last year... after her cancer was in remission... she was rediagnosed. Cancer came back. I hate cancer. I really do. I remember hearing about her.... and how she came to church the next day. She was an instant celebrity. Everyone went up to her... to ask of her well-being. I went up to her. And immediately embraced her... like she was my own mother.
During Gospel Sunday last year... she came out to share her testimony. "I have no fear. I know God is with me." Her words echo like it was yesterday. "And I look forward to worshiping with you all again when I am healed." That day... never came. She came to our Sunday Service twice. In a wheel chair. She was half the person she use to be, physically. But I can sense... her spirit was more than alive.
Last Saturday... she went home to be in the arms of our Abba Father. Today... we bid our final farewells. A rush of emotion came over me as I was standing there translating. I was at a lost for words. I couldn't think. I couldn't speak. I couldn't do it. I pressed on... finished my job and sat back down. Then came the eulogy. I wasn't prepared for that. Whitman came last minute and asked me to translate. I did it in first person. Speaking as if it was my turn... I couldn't hold it in.
Helena... I didn't know you well. But I will never forget you. Thank you for making a last imprint in my life. Until we meet again....
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