COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 157 School Reopens - Day 8
Monday, August 31, 2020
A digital covenant
Sunday, August 30, 2020
It’s beyond the thumbs
Saturday, August 29, 2020
For Forever
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 157 School Reopens - Day 6
Pandora greeted me this morning with “For Forever” followed by “For Forever.” Back to back. Same song. This hasn't happened in... For forever.
All we see is light for forever
'Cause the sun shines bright for forever
Like we'll be alright for forever this way
{{Two friends}} on a perfect day
Thursday, August 27, 2020
愛、回家
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 157 School Reopens - Day 4
Wednesday, August 26, 2020
When life gives you lemons...
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 157 School Reopens - Day 3
Monday, August 24, 2020
A new beginning
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 157 School Reopens - Day 1
Sunday, August 23, 2020
本性難移
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 157
And the past two days.... the kids couldn't be happier (including NN!!!) They're building houses. Hunting for food. Going into creative mode. And survival mode. SW quickly told his friends he's on Minecraft and they jumped on a Google Hangout meeting for hours. Poor NN.... none of her friends play. But she's enjoying it nonetheless. So long Animal Crossing....
I finally ask... "How much did it cost?"
Joyce's response... "You don't wanna know..."
I don't wanna know.... aye...
Friday, August 21, 2020
Another year...
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 155
Another year... And this year... I got quadruple blessings. Joyce and the kids did a mini-treasure hunt for me. They hid stuffed animals with a blessing on each.
Thursday, August 20, 2020
鬓影星星知否
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 154
Woke up in this morning and my left arm is sore... like I've been weight lifting or something, which I obviously haven't. Did I sleep on it? Was it from when we went to the beach and I overused it from hauling the wagon? Then it finally occurred to me. I'm strained it while playing Wii Boxing with SW Aye....Tuesday, August 18, 2020
Stop and smell the roses
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 152
Orientation Day for NN at TKA yesterday. She got her student ID, met some new friends and retrieved her textbooks for the coming school year. And with that... it kicked off my efforts to clean the house in preparation for school restarting. As I started picking up our mess... I started tearing... starting crying... and started bawling.Sunday, August 16, 2020
生活點滴
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 151
What matters most in a tweenage girl's life?? When you walk into her room and ask, "What's going on?" And she says in the most pressing serious tone, "I don't know to wear tomorrow!" Orientation day. Oh geeez....
And then there's the other child...
"Bah-B, is it true that Dawn Ultra Detergent can remove any stain?"
"And is Bounty really the quicker thicker picker upper??"
"If there really are aliens...and they came and saw us... will they think WE'RE ugly?"
I'm watching Netflix and he crawls up next to me. I'm chuckling at some off the cuff joke... and SW goes "Huh-huh-huh.... (short pause) Not funny."
Sigh... these moments in time... wish I can capture them in a bottle. Instead, I have this.
Saturday, August 15, 2020
Stir up a hornet's nest...
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 150
Was in the back yard today... trying to stage four of my stools so I can spread my kitchen area rug on it for some spraying and cleaning. All of a sudden... I see 3 or 4 flying insects dart out of nowhere and then *PINCH!!!!!*. I got stung by a wasp!!!!
It hurt... a lot. But the worst part is... the pain grew bigger and longer. Burning. Knifing. With a whole lot of twisting!!! I screamed. I jumped. I ran... afraid the rest of its friends would come after me. The kids popped their heads out and I promptly shooed them indoors and closed the door. The pain continued. I examined the spot where I got stung... and a huge ball was there now. Did my foot swell up so fast so bad?!?!?! I looked for the stinger... remembering that wasps don't leave a stinger. I shined my phone's light on there to get a better look and realized that ball... wasn't a swollen mass... but rather my ankle. Ok... anatomically, it belonged there. Heh...
Quickly googled what I oughta do... wash with soap and water then ice it. Good enough. Easy enough. Warm water? Cold water? Doesn't say.... then I remembered when SW had his nut allergic reaction...that a warm bath exasperated his hives. Sigh... the pain finally subsided. The venom had drained into my skin and was now in my blood.
After I iced it for a few minutes... I grabbed my can of organic, environmentally safe wasp spray out to pay my respects. They were gone. Without a trace. Then out of curiosity... I turned one of the stools over and there it was... on the bottom of the stool was a wasp nest the size of a ping pong ball, crawling with 4-5 of those wasps. Dang it.... who would've known. After I exterminated two of their more visible nests....there lies a third one, out of sight. How many more are there??????
Wasps.... I hate wasps. Grrrrr....... The only silver lining out of all this. It was me who got stung and not Joyce or the kids.
Thursday, August 13, 2020
What is that...?
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 148
Here's the latest dump... I ain't sh!tin you.... I know it's a load of crap... and I won't poo-poo on the fact the #2 issue in my household today is........... when I found not 1 but 2 brown pieces of soft serve on my porch. WTH!?!?!?Wednesday, August 12, 2020
For better or worse
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 147
Approximately 15 years ago... I made a vow in front of God and man that I will stand with my wife.. for better or worse. And today... I broke that vow.
It's been over a month since Joyce and NN had a blow up... but it happened today. And once it happened... I made a choice, a wrong choice. After their initial fight, which I dutifully stood non-partisan, I strongly suggested that the parent reach out to the child in hopes of peace. Well... that didn't happen. What happened was a bigger blow-up than the initial squabble. I was so pissed. So pissed that I threw the ...... and smashed it to the sink. The echoes of my action is still ringing in my ears right now.
The results... a sobbing, weeping tweenage daughter. And worst yet.... a wife who sits watching Netflix, deflated, defeated, in shambles. Today... I chose something else other than my wife. I chose my daughter. Not with my words but with my actions...of which.... I will regret for the rest of my days.
There I saw... the love of my life... my mate... my best friend... hopeless... full of shame... too hurt to even cry. And me... the man who once vowed to stand beside her in all circumstances... betraying her. Breaking my vows. In good times and in bad... I chose the easy way out.
I'm shamed. I'm humiliated. I'm..... a sinful man. And I.... today... broke my vows to God and man. I'm sorry Hunny. I apologized... but it was too late.
為罪為義為審判
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 147
Since who knows how long... I made NN run a mile with me today. And today... unlike previous days, she didn't rebel. Why? Cuz she was being punished. Yesterday... she pinched her little brother and she was not getting away with it. I didn't punish her right away... but this was coming. She knew it. And I knew it.During our run... I was thinking of our "pep-talk." What can I say that may register to why I was sourcing this punishment. Then it came to me... I told her two stories.
Back in 6th or 7th grade... dad took Big Bro and I to watch a movie. For whatever reason... Big Bro punched me on the shoulder before the movie started. Dad ended up separating us. After the movie... Big Bro went home by himself. I went grocery shopping with dad. And what did dad do? Nothing. All he did was ask, "佢打你痛唔痛呀?" I ended up tearing up. What was I suppose to say... "Yes?" And sound like a wuss. No... I was tearing up... cuz I was expecting dad to lay the smackdown on Big Bro for hitting me. That never happened.
Sometime in 6th or 7th grade... we were at home one summer... and there was a microwave dish on the floor. For whatever reason... I pissed Big Bro off and he shoved the dish, sliding on the floor, and he smashed my big toe, cracking the nail and I was bleeding - big time. That afternoon... dad came home. What did dad do? Nothing.
Those two events... long forgotten in the confines of yester-year came floating back today. When one child physically hurts another child... there needs to be consequences. For sin. For righteousness. For even the facade of non-favoritism. I got none of that. Those memories... struck a chord. It hurts till this day.
Did dad really do nothing? I doubt it. He may have had a talk. He may have done "something." But not to my knowledge. It's what I choose to believe.
Not today. Not me.
I told Nui-nui... today it's pinching. Who's to say tomorrow won't be punching. There is almost absolute no reason for bodily harm. And I will punish you... or SW... or anyone for doing so. And I will be fair. And I will make it known. I won't be the parent that does nothing.
And after almost two months of layover... NN did a 10 minute mile.
Sunday, August 09, 2020
再破天方
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 144
Didn't think this day would come... but it happened. All it took was a pandemic. And on this day (well, yesterday, really), Dad and I had our first bible study together.
Sure... 80% of the time was spent on introductions, blowing water and playing ice-breaking games. But we sat down... we read a few bible passages together. And we prayed.
Phew..... 3 more sessions to go!
Saturday, August 08, 2020
Happy Birthday, Mui
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 143
Celebrated Grace's birthday tonight. We even drove up to Town and got a quart of cocktail for her. I admire Grace, a lot. She's the closest thing I have to a younger sister. Something or someone I've always wanted. I applaud her as she raises 2 kids as a single parent. And I kowtow to her as she embarks on her MBA at this junction of her life/career. And though she will never.... ever... in any right situation, ever call me 阿哥.... nor has she ever called me 姐夫... I take solace in the fact that I can call her 妹 and she'll respond in an instant. As if she's accepted that fact already.Friday, August 07, 2020
Schedule Day
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 142
Thursday, August 06, 2020
Enough is enough
COVID-19 - School Closure - Day 141
I was sitting on my swing in the backyard... contemplating what I'll do. Then she came out and apologized. And I made a decision... I got up. Didn't look at her. And went back in the house. As I walked back into the kitchen....all I can hear was her crying. She crossed the line this time - waaaaaay past the line. But was that warranted??
What am I doing??