Compassion

Nn is universally known for being very caring for SW... and very loving in general.  How she picked it up... who knows.  SW on the other hand...

Last night... SW pissed NN off (again).  NN ran into our room and started to cry.  I told SW to go "tum 番家姐."  And he really did not know what to do.  He just stood there looking at her... then looked at me... then looked at her.  Puzzled.

NN was sitting there... waiting, just waiting for a compassionate hand or a hug.  Nothing.
I had to tell SW exactly what to do... and he did it, formulaicly.

Is that the difference between boys and girls??